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Step 05
“Five Rules for Asking a Girl Out”

In this step I am going to tell you the five golden rules that you should use when you ask a girl out.

Synopsis
  • Do Not Call Her Immediately
  • Do Not Ask Her for a Date Straight Away
  • Make Your Date More Fun than Stress
  • Just Tell Her Your Plans Instead Of Asking Her
  • Convince Your Girl

It can be quite nerve racking to decide on the best way to ask a girl out.  You need to consider a number of things, but these are the five rules you should always remember. 

Do Not Call Her Immediately

Once you have your hands on the girl’s phone number, don’t call her straight away.  If you appear too eager, she may think you are pressurizing her, and she may be put off you altogether.

Give her time to get used to the idea that you will be phoning her, but don’t leave it too long or someone else may beat you to it.  Usually, waiting for twenty-four to forty-eight hours is best.

Do Not Ask Her for a Date Straight Away

When you do get around to phoning, don’t just jump into asking her out on a date.  Spend some time chatting about life in general, or a topic that interests you both.  If your instincts are telling you that you need to get to know each other a bit better before dating, arrange to meet for coffee or a lunch just as friends.

Alternatively, if you are arranging any type of group get together, you tell her she is welcome to come along. That way, you are not actually inviting her on a date, but it gives you the opportunity to get to know her better if she does come.

Make Your Date More Fun than Stress

Some people can make such a big deal out of their first date, they forget to have fun.  Your girl will be much more impressed if you are relaxed and can show her that you are enjoying her company and whatever it is you are doing.

If you are stressing out about making sure the date is a success, you are likely to be trying too hard and that doesn’t create a good impression and can be just as bad as being over-confident and blasé about the situation.

When choosing a venue or activity for your first date stick to something within your comfort zone.  You will have enough nervous energy to contend with, without having the stress that comes from dealing with a new environment or activity at the same time.

Just Tell Her Your Plans Instead Of Asking Her
7 cool and fun ways to ask a girl out on a date 5It is very easy to get it wrong when you are choosing what to do and where to go on a first date.  Someone has to take the initiative, and that should be you.  Have some ideas in mind of what you would like to do, but tell your date what you’re thinking about.  Providing she does not object or make alternative suggestions, you should go ahead and make the arrangements.

If your suggestions do not meet with your girl’s approval, ask her what she would like to do instead.  You may both need to compromise to find something you both want to do. Depending on how well you have gotten to know each other, it will improve your chances of arranging dates that will meet with her approval.  You will soon learn whether she is happy to let you go ahead with arrangements for your dates without first consulting her. Many girls these days expect an equal say in the decisions, and if they don’t get it, they may perceive you as being domineering and controlling.  

On the other hand, there are still a few girls around who are happy to leave all the decisions to you. Convince Your Girl Your first date gives you the opportunity to gather information about your girl and decide if you are likely to be compatible if you continue dating.  Just as she is examining you and forming an opinion, you need to do the same with her personality. 

If you find that your opinions are conflicting about the small unimportant things, then you may have serious differences when it comes to the important life decisions.  Compromising may not be an option unless both parties are willing. [Adsense-A]

Step 06 “Mistakes to Avoid When Asking A Girl Out”

There are some common mistakes that you should avoid when you asking a girl out.  In this step I will tell you what those mistakes are.

Synopsis
  • Negative Thinking
  • Don’t Chase a Girl Who Is Not Interested In You
  • Control your Insecurity and Jealousy
  • Fear of Rejection

Knowing how to impress a girl is often not enough.  If you want to be successful you need to know the pitfalls and how to avoid them.  This step will tell you more about the pitfalls to avoid.  Negative Thinking Whether you consciously or unconsciously allow yourself to think negative thoughts, it will show up in your body language. 

If your date is perceptive enough to read your body language or picks up on your negativity through your conversation, that alone will put your date off.  In many cases it can also prevent you from asking girls out on a date.  The only one that can get rid of that negativity is you.  You need to concentrate on what you have got, and your best features and eliminate the negative thoughts to improve your self-confidence.

Don’t Chase a Girl Who Is Not Interested In You One of the worst mistakes you can make is to keep pushing for a date when the girl has already turned you down.  If she really isn’t interested in you and you keep pushing she could perceive that you are stalking her. 

That could become a serious problem and get you into a lot of trouble. You need to take what she is saying at face value and if she rejects your request for a date, back off.  You need to turn your attentions elsewhere. You need to be perceptive to whether the girl is interested, but is just playing hard to get by saying no when you first ask her out. 

If she starts ignoring you, and try’s to avoid your company, you can be pretty sure she meant no when she said it.  If she doesn’t try and avoid you, or continues to talk to you, it might be worth waiting a while and trying again. Control your Insecurity and Jealousy 7 cool and fun ways to ask a girl out on a date 6

Another often unforgivable mistake is to become jealous and insecure about your relationship.  If you start being moody when she talks to other blokes, or you complain about her spending time with her girlfriends, you are on a slippery slope.  Once it starts it usually only gets worse.  You need to constantly remind yourself that your girl is not your possession, and she is with you because she wants to be.

Fear of Rejection

Rejection by a girl can dent your self-confidence and your ego.  Usually if it’s just your ego, you already think a lot of yourself and will convince yourself that it was her and not you, so no real harm done.

On the other hand, if your self-confidence takes a real knock you may find it harder to get up the courage to ask another girl out.  You can always talk it through with someone you really trust that can help you to see it is not the end of the world and support you while you move on.  The longer you leave it to move on, the harder it will be. 

Step 07 “The First Impression Is a Lasting Impression”
Synopsis
  • Be Aware of Your Body Language
  • Keep Some Secrets of Your Personality And Reveal Slowly
  • Take Control of Your Date
  • Be Funny and Have Fun

If you are looking for shortcuts to impress a girl, you are wasting your time.  They may be attracted to you, but are unlikely to fall at your feet without some effort on your part.  However, first impressions do count and if you make a poor first impression you will have to work all the harder to change it. 

Be Aware of Your Body Language

Be self-aware and know what your body language is saying about you.  It is possible for a girl to tell a lot about you from your body language, before you approach or speak to her.

Watching other people and thinking about what their body language is saying to you, can help you to become more aware of you come across.

Keep Some Secrets of Your Personality and Reveal Slowly
7 cool and fun ways to ask a girl out on a date 7Getting to know each other takes time and we all tend to be on our best behavior until we know the person better.  That is OK, unless you are hiding a deep dark secret side to your personality. It is easy to make the excuse that you didn’t want to frighten her off on the first date, but she may feel more aggrieved if she finds out you have not been truthful with her from the start. Take Control of Your Date You have asked the girl out so you can expect to have some control on what you do and where you go. [Adsense-A]

The girl may well be happy to sit back and let you take charge, but you take that for granted at your peril. You need to remember that you are both equal and you both have a right to your own opinions.  On the first date especially, you are getting to know about each other, so there should not really be any reason for debates, heated or otherwise. 

Steer the conversation to keep it away from what could be controversial subject until you know a bit more about each other. Be Funny and Have Fun If you have taken time to get to know each other as friends before going on a date, you will probably find it is a lot easier to be natural in each other company and you can relax and just have fun. 7 cool and fun ways to ask a girl out on a date 8

If it is a blind date, or you haven’t had the chance to get to know each other you will likely be more uptight.  It is not the best time to try out a new restaurant or venue you haven’t been to before.  The more familiar you both are with the surroundings the easier it will be to concentrate on each other and relax.

Wrapping up

Asking a girl out requires some sensitivity and skill that will come with practice.  You are like to have some good and some bad experiences.  You need to learn from the good ones and put the bad ones behind you so you can move on.

You should never let a bad experience dent your confidence because that is the key to getting your next date.  Girls are more attracted to confident and assured males.

Not all girls are out for what they can get out of a relationship.  However, if you do meet one that is very material orientated and start to date her, you will need deep pockets to keep the relationship going.  Unless you run out of money, you may find she is hard to break up with, or she may quickly move on when she finds someone who can give her more.  You need to decide what type of girl you are looking for.

This Article has been written to provide you with an insight into how you can improve your ability to get dates.  Unfortunately, as human beings are all different and you will rarely find two people who are immediately in tune with each other’s personalities, you do need to build up some knowledge of the girl before she is likely to go out with you.  This Article will help to guide you in the right direction.

This Article also attempts to give you an insight into the female psyche, but as I am sure you often heard said, “who can understand a women’s mind”?  The answer is probably not you, but it can be fun trying.  So why not have some fun?

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Just want to share with you 7 cool and fun ways to ask a girl out on a date. Surely, you will never fail when follow these tips. Let action with the girl you like now.

Step 01
“Different Types of Girls”

In this step I will tell you about the types of girls that you are likely to meet.  I will also tell you how you should go about getting to know them better.

Synopsis
  • Girls Who Have a Calm Nature
  • Girls Who Are Bold
  • Girls Who Are Flirty
  • Girls Who Are Less Attractive
  • Girls Who Are Boring

I will tell you how to recognize the different categories of girls, so you can choose one that is compatible with you and your environment, behavior and habits. 

Girls Who Have a Calm Nature

If you are looking for a long-term or possibly a life-time partner to settle down with, you should look for this type of girl.

She will have a serious out-look and approach to life and have little interest in things frivolous.  She is a ‘one-man woman’ and will expect the man to wear the trousers in a relationship.  She is likely to be compliant and willing to please.  However, she does have standards and habits that are set in stone and will be almost impossible to change.  She will judge you by her standards and expect you to have similar expectations and goals in life.

Girls Who Are Bold

These girls appear to be and are very different from calm girls.  However, they have an underlying seriousness when it comes to a love relationship, and they will expect commitment from you.

These girls enjoy flirting.  They prefer it when they are the center of your attention.  They are very outgoing and fun to be with, but you need to be aware of their invisible boundaries.  They will cut you off very quickly if you overstep the mark.  Remaining faithful is an essential in a relationship with these girls.  They may appear possessive as they can display a need to hang out with you all the time.

Girls Who Are Flirty

You may often come across girls who are flirty, but very shallow.  They often jump from one relationship to another, or have several ongoing at the same time.  You should never expect more than a short but often exhilarating fling with these girls.
7 cool and fun ways to ask a girl out on a dateThey are usually very attractive and belief it’s their right to be admired and pampered by boys.  They are often referred to a ‘man’s woman’ because they may not connect with other females easily.  They may always expect you to pay on a date, and you will need to shower them with gifts. They are usually accused of only being interested in what they can get out of any relationship, so you can expect to be replaced once the first initial excitement of the relationship calms down.

They detest boredom and normality. Girls Who Are Less Attractive These girls may not have the looks, but they do have a warm and very supportive nature.  They can very easily become your life-long best friend, rather than a date. They believe that they have nothing to offer in the attraction’s stakes and can become very wary with boys, who are attracted to them.  They mistrust the intention of boys that offer flowery compliments and make romantic gestures.

They have a mind of their own and expect boys to be more attracted to their mind, than their looks.  They put friendship much higher up in the relationship stakes than love.  You may need to do the same and forget about romantic gestures and dates. Girls Who Are Boring Coming into contact with girls who are boring is not uncommon.  That usually means that you have no shared interests, on which to build a relationship.

During your initial contact, the girl may seem fun and outgoing.  However, once you’ve covered all the get to know you bits. You will likely run out of things to talk about.  As you have no shared interests or hobbies the relationship will quickly stall.  It may be better not to start a relationship in the first place.

Step 02
“Planning to Ask a Girl Out?”

There are several things you need to plan when you are going to ask a girl out.  This step will guide you through the planning. [AdSense-A]

Synopsis
  • Reason for Failure
  • Plan to do Something Exciting
  • Plan the Logistics of Your Date in Advance
  • Take it as Read, That You Have to do the Asking
  • Choosing the Right Moment
  • Knowing When the Time is Right to ask Her Out.

You are likely to come across some tough situations throughout your life-time.  However, perhaps one of the toughest will be getting it right, when you ask a girl out on a date.  You are hoping she will say yes straight away.  However, you may not always be that lucky and she may say no, or make excuses as to why she cannot go out with you. Here are some tips on how you can get the girl to say yes to your request for a date.  Reason for Failure If you are a stranger to the girl, you are asking out, the chances are she is more likely to say no.  You could be ‘Jack the Ripper’ for all she knows.

Her response will likely be an act of self-preservation that has little to do with you.  She will be applying what she has been taught since early childhood ‘not to talk, or go with strangers’ You should not allow a rejection to dent your self-confidence.  You need to take things slowly and spend some time as acquaintances, getting to know each other. Once she gets to know and starts to feel comfortable with you, she is much more likely to say yes. Plan to Do Something Exciting Choose something fun activities you can do with a group of friends.  That gives you the opportunity to invite the girl to join your group as a friend. 

You then have a non-threatening opportunity to relax and interact so you can get to know each other better. If you succeed in getting the girl to hang out with you and some friends, you will find it much easier to ask her on a date.  She is more likely to say yes, because she has seen that you can be a fun guy. Be spontaneous, and don’t be afraid to show you have a caring side.  Show her you are intelligent and can talk about topics other than what’s going on at school or at home. 

Talk about subjects or hobbies that really interest you, and take time to find out what she likes and dislikes.  It is all about natural and free flowing communication and getting to know about each other. Plan the Logistics of Your Date in Advance Plan ahead and know what you intend to do on the date.  Then when you ask her if she is free that evening, you can tell her what you have planned and ask if that is OK with her.  If she has already said she is free that night, she is unlikely to say no. If she sees you are willing to compromise about what you want to do during the date, it will help to win you brownie points. However, if after saying she is free, she then starts to make excuses why she cannot go on the date with you.  You should accept it as a good sign, she is not attracted to you. 7 cool and fun ways to ask a girl out on a date 2

Alternatively, if she says, she already has plans for the evening you want to take her out; you can try some charm and gentle persuasion.  If she knows you are a fun person to be with, and she is attracted to you, you may get her to change her plans.  Or you can ask her what night would be OK with her.

Take it as Read That You Have to do the Asking.

Don’t labor under the misapprehension that a girl will ask you out on a date.  Contrary to a popular belief, there are only a very small number of girls who will ask you out.  If you don’t want to miss out, then be prepared to be the one that asks for a date.

Choosing the Right Moment

Making sure you choose the right moment to ask a girl on a date is important.  If you rush in and ask her before she has had the chance to get to know you, she will say no.  It may take several meetings as friends before you find the right moment.  You need to be patient, use your instincts and learn to read the signs she is giving you, and you should know instinctively when she is ready to progress to dating.

Knowing When the Time is Right to Ask Her Out

There are several signs that may indicate that the girl is ready to go out on a date with you.  In addition to the way she looks at you and her body language, you may notice a more intimate tone in her conversation with you.

She will show an interest in you, even when you talk about something boring or are saying very little.  You need to rely on your instinct and natural ability to know when the time is right to ask her for a date.

Step 03
“Ideas for Being Romantic”

If you want to ask a girl out on a date, you should approach her with some style and romance.  The advice in this step will help you to bring out the romantic side of your personality.

Synopsis
  • Don’t be Afraid to Show your Feminine Side or Caring Nature
  • Believe in Yourself
  • Sit Down and Make a List
  • Make the First Move
  • Communications
  • Be There for Her when She Needs You
  • Make Sure She Notices You

Having a girl as a friend is one thing; it is the moving on to a romantic relationship that can be the difficult part.  Making a smooth transition will be easy if you approach it in the right way.  What you say, and the way you behave, when you ask a girl out, can be the key to your success or your failure. 

Don’t be Afraid to Show your Feminine Side or Caring Nature

If you are really interested in a girl, you need to let her know.  That often means toning down your ‘macho’ attitude and behavior and letting her see you have a softer and more caring nature.  If you come across as having too much testosterone, you risk frightening or turning the girl off, and she will make excuses not to go out with you.

Many of the male populations are reluctant to admit that they have a feminine side, especially in front of other males.  However, the best way to get the girl to go out on a date is to show her you do have a sensitive and caring nature.  If you do this, and she continues to turn you down, then you should forget her and find another girl to ask out.

Believe in Yourself

You may not be the most attractive male on the planet, but you may not be the ugliest.  You need to be strong in the belief that you do have something to offer a girl.  However, you do need to find the right balance between being self-confident or being over-bearing, if you want to be successful in attracting the girl.

If like most males starting out on the dating game, you think you don’t have a romantic bone in your body, you may be surprised.  Following a few simple steps can introduce you to your romantic side.

Sit Down and Make a List

If you are not good at remembering things, you can write them down in a list.  Girls are well impressed if you remember their birthday, or special occasions such as anniversaries, without having to be reminded.  The minimum you should do is send her a card, but you will gain a lot more brownie points if you send flowers, chocolates or take her out for a nice meal to celebrate.

You can also use your list to make a note of her likes and dislikes such as does she have a favorite perfume, what is her favorite color and so on?  It will save you a whole lot of grief if you choose something she really likes as a gift for those special occasions.

Make the First Move

Knowing when your relationship with a girl is ready to move on to the next stage can be tricky.  As many girls will be reluctant to take the initiative, it is up to you to make the first move.  If you over-step the mark, by being too passionate too quickly, you can destroy the relationship.  You need to start off by saying goodbye with a wave or a casual kiss on the cheek.  You can hold hands while walking, or while sitting in the cinema.  The more you get to know her the easier you will find it is to read the signs.  She will let you know when she is ready to progress the relationship.

Communication

Communication plays a very important part in any relationship.  It is an excellent tool that provides the opportunity for the couple to find out what makes each other tick.  The conversations should be natural and should be geared as much to listen and learning, as they are about talking.  Initially, the girl may appear to be shy or unwilling to talk about herself, talking about interests or hobbies you have in common will help her to relax.
7 cool and fun ways to ask a girl out on a date 3You can try to draw her out by asking questions.  However, you should take care that you don’t make her feel like she is being interrogated. Be There for Her When She Needs You If your girl is upset for any reason, or just feels unwell, you need to bring out your caring side and be there for her.  You may not be able to do anything to cure a physical ailment, but you can provide emotional support.  Just by being there and listening shows that you really care and that can help to improve her emotional state. Make Sure She Notices You There is little point in you wasting your time and energy putting on a show for a girl, is she doesn’t even know you are there.  You need to make sure your actions involve something she is interested in and ask her to get involved or to give you her opinion on what you intend doing.  Unfortunately for some, that does mean you need to talk to her and get to know her first, before trying to impress. [AdSense-A]

 

Step 04
“Tips for Asking a Girl Out”

If you are asking girls for a date and being rejected, then you should read the tips in this step to find out what you are doing wrong.

Synopsis
  • Presentation and Punctuality are Necessities

 

  • Remaining Calm and Happy

 

 

  • Compliment Her and Make the Environment Interested

 

 

  • Follow Your Instincts

 

 

  • Always Stay Positive and Thoughtful

 

 

  • Show Your Intent and Passion

 

 

  • Look For Positive Dates

 

 Society takes a much more casual view of dating habits these days than used to be the case in our parents and grandparents days.  It was almost unheard of for individuals to have multiple relationships ongoing at the same time.  Dating was taken seriously and when it became a longer term relationship is usually ended in marriage. Whereas, today it is not that unusual for individuals to frequently change dating partners, or have several at the same time.  It is much less likely that individuals will enter into a marriage with their first dating partner.  Unfortunately, this modern practice of trying out multiple dates in the search for the right partner can have disastrous consequences of a criminal nature. Preparation and Punctuality are Necessities Preparing for a first date is important.  If you want to make a good impression you have to start by considering how you will look.  Ask yourself what your date is likely to think of the way you present yourself?  Will she be able to see that you have made an effort? 

Making an effort with how you appear, especially on the first date will help to create a favorable impression. Punctuality for your first date is just as important as your appearance.  Even being a few minutes’ late, sends out the wrong signals before your date has even started. 

You are better off planning to be at your meeting place a few minutes early. Remaining Calm and Happy Try to remain calm and don’t let your nerves show on a first date.  If you are feeling a bit uptight, taking a few deep breaths can help to relax you before your date turns up. If you are someone who is easily wound up by poor service, then you need to select the venue for your date carefully.  You will not win any brownie points if you lose your temper or create a fracas about the littlest thing.  Remaining cool, calm and collected if you are justified in making a complaint creates a good impression and shows that you can act responsibly.

Don’t Shy Away from Giving Her Compliments Any individual, especially a female who says she doesn’t appreciate a compliment is lying.  However, the compliment does have to be sincere or your date will likely pick up on it.  Although this is sometimes an area where you may need to rely on your tact and sensitivity, especially if she asks you what you think about her new dress, or a new hairstyle and you hadn’t noticed.  She will not thank you for your honesty if you tell her you hate it.

Actively listening to what your date has to say and accepting her right to have her own opinions, helps to show that you value and respect your date.  If you allow your attention to drift, or constantly interrupt to impose your own opinions over hers, you are unlikely to get a second date. You need to take responsibility for keeping the conversation flowing as naturally as you can. 

You can do that by ensuring there are no long gaps in the conversation.  Having a mental list of topics you can introduce into the conversation, that you know will interest your date, helps to avoid those uncomfortable silences.

Rely on Your Instincts and Tell the Truth.7 cool and fun ways to ask a girl out on a date 4
It is unlikely that on a first date you will get around to telling your girl all your deepest, darkest secrets.  However, there are some things that you need to be up front about and you will know instinctively what they are.  If you want the relationship to continue and develop beyond the first date you need to tell her.  She can then decide if she wants to continue dating you.  You need to think carefully about what would happen if she finds out about your secret from another source, before you get around to telling her.  It will get harder to tell her if you keep putting it off.

On the other hand if she asks you a direct question, you can always lie.  If you do you are likely to feel guilty about lying and when it does eventually come out you will have to explain why you lied.  That can be enough to finish your relationship.

Remain Positive Despite Bad Experiences

If you can get through life without having to deal with a rejection in the dating game, you will be very lucky.  Nearly everyone will have at least one, if not more poor dating experiences at some point in their life.  You just have to learn what you can from it and move on.  You have to accept that life is not a ‘bed of roses’ and it is not always your fault that it didn’t work out.

If you think you were even partially responsible for the breakdown of the date, then you can take steps to ensure that the same things don’t ruin any of your future dates.  You need to remain positive about finding the right date for you in the future.

Committed to Finding a Potential Life-Time Partner

If you are committed to finding a life-time partner as opposed to a girl for casual dating, you need to be clear in your own mind about what you are looking for.  You also need to be upfront with the girl, as she may not feel the same way as you do about a life-time relationship.

There are some girls out there who would be willing to commit to a life-time partner for any number of reasons.  However, unless you have spent time getting to know each other first, which usually means dating.  There are no guarantees that you will be compatible or that a life-time partnership will survive.

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If you are new to the dating game or are returning after a long period of time, it can be a daunting prospect.  You will need to brush up on your knowledge and techniques if you want to find a good dating partner.

Spend some time people watching to see others in action and talk to friends and other people who may have just gone or are going through the same looking for a date experience.  They will no doubt be a good source of advice and tips on how to go about it. 

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Let continue 100 Best Flirting Tips for Girls and Guys.

  1. How to tell if a girl really likes you.

Whenever you are talking to a girl that you are interested in, you can actually look at her eyes to see if she also feels the same way. One of the things that you can check out for this is her pupils. When they are dilated, while she is looking at you with deep interest, then it is a sign that she is really into you.

  1. What her crossed leg is telling you.

In most cases, women always have their legs crossed when they are sitting down and talking. If you are talking to one, and her crossed leg is pointed towards you, then it is a clear indication that she is interested in you. This is actually true, especially if she rocks that same leg back and forth while still
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  1. Expose your neck.

For a woman to attract her man, one of the techniques that she can use is to expose her neck to him. There are many ways that this can be done. One of which is by tilting your head to one side. Aside from that, you can also do the classic hair flip. Whichever technique you use, it is best if you follow it up by looking at his eyes.

  1. Wearing red lipstick.

Men, and even women are attracted to the color red, since it indicates youth, fertility, as well as sex. When it comes to men though, moist red lips is one of most attractive parts of a woman that can turn them on. Thus, it is best to wear a red lipstick, and to make it more effective, try flirting by biting your lower lip, while talking to him.

  1. Use your shoulders.

When it comes to women, they are mostly attracted to men who are more dominant. This does not mean that you have to boss them around. This pertains to your appearance, which you can achieve when you stand tall and your shoulders back. Hold your head up high and come up with gestures that make you look more assertive.

  1. Attract more women with your feet.

Body language can get you anywhere especially if you make use of it properly. One of the things that you can do with it is to attract more women with the proper positioning of your feet. Since women are more attracted to males that appear dominant, you want to stand straight with your feet about 6 to 10 inches apart, while your toes are pointed outwards.

  1. Do not lose focus.

Always remember that one of the purposes of flirting, is to know the other person better. Thus, if you are already talking to her, then you should not lose your focus. This means that you should listen attentively to what she is saying. This you can show by nodding and tilting your head. Aside from that, you should also smile and laugh when the situation calls for it.

  1. What to do when a woman starts flirting with you.

You would know when a woman is starting to flirt with you by taking note of some indicators about it. Some of which would be low-level touching, extended eye contact, and laughing. If you like the person, then you should respond accordingly, such as flirting back.

  1. Mimic the other person’s moves.

One of the most popular flirting gestures is to mimic the other person’s moves. For instance, if she leans forward, then you can also lean forward; and, you may even be doing this without intending to. If you are aware of it though, do it in a subtle way, so that it won’t appear like you are making fun of her.

  1. Grooming gestures.

It is quite natural for a person to groom himself or herself when he or she is attracted to someone. These grooming gestures, such as fixing your tie, smoothing down your clothes, or checking your lipstick, can actually work better if you combine it with a smile. When you do that, it actually becomes an effective flirting gesture, which can get the attention of the other person.

  1. On your first date.

When you are on a date with a woman you like for the first time, it is best to take note of some flirting gestures, which indicate that she likes you. Some of which would be when she rubs her chin, raises her voice to match yours, exposes her palm towards you, and such. By being mindful of these signs, it can give you an idea if she wants to go out with you again or not.

  1. Be more approachable.

One of the issues lots of women have to deal with is appearing unapproachable. To ensure that this is not the case with you, then you should stand in a way that make men see you as a desirable target. All you actually have to do is to place your feet not farther than 6 feet apart when you stand up, and see that your toes are pointed inwards.

  1. Become a funny person.

Lots of women can become bored whenever they are with guys who are always talking about very serious stuffs. Thus, it is best if you become a funny person, so that you can attract more women your way. Women love to laugh, and if you are good with it, then you would have a better chance in scoring a date with the person you like.

  1. Checking a woman out is considered flirting.

There are lots of ways that you can flirt with a girl. In fact, checking a woman out and letting her catch you while doing it is actually one of the flirting gestures that lots of males are practicing these days. This flirting gesture is quite effective, since it makes a woman feel more attractive. Smile when she catches you, so that she won’t feel uncomfortable.

  1. Timing is key.

Flirting is something that you can do on a daily basis. However, for it to work, you have to make sure that you practice good timing. In other words, if you are planning to flirt with a person, make sure that she is also in the mood for it. With that, if she looks like she is very busy doing something, then you should do it some other time.

  1. Don’t let an opportunity pass you by.

Whenever flirting opportunities happen, you should know when and how to take advantage of them. Do not let any opportunity pass you by, so that you won’t end up regretting not taking the chance. For example, if a woman accidentally spills her drink at the bar, then you should know what to do next. There is no need to rush it. Wait for the right moment and look her straight in the eyes, and smile when you shook your head.

  1. Checking out if a woman is really interested in you.

If you want to see if the woman you are talking to is really interested in you, then try to do something to put a stop to your conversation temporarily. If she is really into you, she will come up with ways to carry on the conversation. In fact, she can even make excuses, so that she would be able to continue talking to you.

  1. Flaunt what you have.

One of the best things to do in order to make your flirting more effective is to know yourself better. Identify your best assets, and flaunt them, so that you can make the most out of your best features. For example, if you have shapely legs, then show it. Aside from that, if you have kissable lips, then accentuate them by making use of the best lipstick available.

  1. The sense of smell can also be tapped in order to attract the opposite sex.

It is a fact that people secrete pheromones, which can attract the members of the opposite sex. However, you can also make use of perfumes in order to capitalize on it. For example, most women are actually very attracted to men that wear perfumes, which emanate a musk aroma. Thus, choose your perfumes well, so that your money invested would be worth it.

  1. Opening up a conversation.

It is quite pointless to start flirting with a woman, if you cannot effectively open up a smooth conversation with her. Therefore, apart from learning all the flirting techniques, you should also come up with lines to open up the conversation. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself about it. However, it is best to make it as original as possible, since women want something new. [AdSense-A]

  1. Talking with your partner.

When it comes to talking with the person that you are flirting with, you should use good language. Aside from that, you should also properly time yourself in talking, so that she can understand you well. There is no point in talking to someone whom you want to get to know better, if she could not even understand what you are talking about.

  1. How to make her feel special.

When you are flirting with someone in a room that is filled with lots of people, it is best to make her feel special. You can achieve it by maintaining eye contact with her. Let her feel that she is the center of your universe, by being interested in whatever she says. By doing this, she will get the message that you are really interested in getting to know her more.

  1. Flirting inside the fitness gym.

If you are not aware of it, there are actually lots of things that you can take advantage of inside the gym when it comes to flirting with someone. One of which is the fact that gyms are usually filled up with mirrors. Through the mirrors in the gym, you can check out the person you are interested in, and you can even look at each other through it. Being in eye contact with someone you like in the mirror is actually quite exciting, which is why you should try it soon.

  1. Choosing targets.

There is no need for you to have a crush on someone to flirt with him or her. Flirting can be done spontaneously, and you can even do it on a daily basis. When you instill this into your mind, then you would be able to practice your flirting skills more often. This would go a long way, as far as scoring a date with the one you really like is concerned.

  1. Do not slouch.

Slouching is one of the things that you can do to turn off ladies. This is because it is a posture that indicate lack of confidence and energy. Put your chest out and bring your shoulders towards you back, so that you would look more manly and make ladies become more attracted to you.

  1. Show signs that you enjoy talking to them.

While you are talking to the person that you are flirting with, it is best to show signs that you are enjoying the conversation. One of the things that you can do is to smile whenever it is appropriate to do so. Aside from that, you should also maintain eye contact. When you do this, the other person can see your signals, and it is also possible for her to show signals of her own as well.

  1. Use your body to flirt with her.

Using your body to flirt with a girl that you really like is quite effective. For example, while you are talking to each other, you can point your body towards the direction of the other person, while maintaining good posture. Aside from that, you can also try to find excuses to touch her.

  1. Do not forget about what flirting is all about.

Flirting is not all about baring your whole self or sharing your most honest opinions on very serious matters. Flirting is all about showing interest on the other person as well as opening up doors to more future conversations with him or her. Thus, keep the conversation light, fun, and more enjoyable, instead of focusing on sad or serious things.

  1. Awkward silences.

Whenever you are talking to a girl that you like, your conversation may come to a point when you experience awkward silences. If this happens, and you won’t be able to remedy it, then she may think that you are not enjoying it. One of the best ways to go around it is to ask her a question. If you think you may not be that fast to come up with one, then prepare a list of it prior to going out.

  1. Know how to wrap it up.

If you are really interested with the girl that you are flirting with, then you should not hesitate asking her out on a date, especially if she sends out signals that she is also into you. You should know when to wrap it up, so that you would make the most out of your conversation. If you are not sure about asking her out though, make sure to give her your phone number so that she has a way to get in contact with you.

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  1. Work it out.

Lots of people love to workout today, and if you want to take advantage of it to flirt with some girls, then choose gyms that are shared by men and women. While working out, make sure to flex those muscles of yours, to attract more admiring ladies. Do not overdo it though, and start a conversation with the one you like once you see an opportunity, so that it won’t go to waste.

  1. The fitness gym offers lots of opportunities to flirt.

In working out, you should always be on the lookout for opportunities to flirt with the lady that you are attracted to. For example, offer her assistance whenever you see that she is having a trouble in accessing an equipment. By doing this, not only would she appreciate the gesture, but it can help in breaking the ice and start a conversation with her.

  1. Show that you are attracted.

A woman would love the fact that someone she is interested with is attracted to her. Thus, if you like someone, you should show your appreciation by looking at her while she is working out. Just make sure to avoid staring on a fix manner, so that she won’t feel uncomfortable with it.

  1. Don’t hesitate in scanning the room.

When it comes to flirting, there is no need to wait for a man to initiate the actions. In fact, if you are ready, such as you are all dressed up and you are already at the bar, one of the first things you can do is to scan the room for possible males that you want to flirt with. For all you know, a hunk may already be checking you out, which can make things easier to do.

  1. Do not stay in your group.

If you want to be able to spark up a conversation with someone you like, then you should not stay in your group. This is because, if you are in your group of friends, a man may not have enough guts to approach you for fear of embarrassment. Thus, you should come up with an excuse to separate from them for awhile, so that you can increase your chances of landing on a date later on.

  1. Making the move.

Some girls think that they should wait for a man to initiate the moves when it comes to starting a conversation. Although this is true, since a man would surely approach you when you have sent out signals that you are interested, it does not necessarily mean that you should wait all night long. Thus, if you are flirting with someone, but he is still not able to make the move, then you can always do it, especially if you are really attracted to him.

  1. Talking with a guy.

Many girls would assume that guys would always have something interesting to talk about. However, being a girl, you should also know how to keep a good conversation going by having something interesting to talk about. You should also do this, especially if you are the one who will approach the guy.

  1. Your intentions should be clear.

When you are flirting and talking to a man, you should make your intentions clear. This is important, so that you won’t be leading him on, especially if you are not interested in taking things to the next level. Make your intentions clear by choosing your words carefully, and by coming up with the right body language.

  1. Flirtatious questions.

There are lots of flirtatious questions that you can use in order to flirt with a guy. These questions can be used while you are talking with the guy face to face, and you can also use them through text messages. Questions that you can ask can pertain to what he is wearing in bed, whether or not he likes the girl to make the first move, and such.

  1. Flirting through text messages.

There are lots of advantages in flirting through SMS or text messages. This is because; there is no need to watch your body language for it. Aside from that, you can read and review your message for a lot of times before hitting the SEND button. Just make sure that your text message is really flirtatious and effective, so that it would really count. [AdSense-A]

  1. When to take flirtatious risks.

Taking risks when it comes to flirting is one of the ways to speed up the process of getting into the next level, with the guy that you really like. However, you should see to it that he is worth the risk. A guy who is considerate and treats you with respect would be someone you can consider taking a risk for. This is because, when it won’t work, you would be assured that it would not hurt so much.

  1. Exchanging text messages with a guy you have flirted with.

When you are sending text messages to a guy that you have flirted with, you should be nice, but take your time in responding to his messages. This way, he would be longing for more from you. However, do not overdo it, since it can make him wonder whether you are really interested in him or not.

  1. Ask her out on a date.

In working out in a gym and exchanging flirty glances with a woman, you may be surprised when you approach her and she seems not interested in talking to you. Keep in mind that it is possible that she prefers not to talk to anyone while working out. Thus, if you really like her, then ask her if she is interested in having a cup of coffee later on, so that you can have a better chance to get to know her later.

  1. Gather facts about your guy.

If you are flirting with a guy in school, you should not hesitate in gathering some facts about him. Try to learn about his likes and dislikes, so that you know what he wants to talk about when he is with you. Do not make him know that you are researching about him though, since it can scare him off.

  1. Do not avoid the guy that you are interested in.

If you are still in school and you want to flirt with a guy, then the last thing that you want to do is to avoid him. This is because, it would not give you the opportunity to talk to him. Aside from that, he may also notice it, which is bad news, since he may also end up avoiding you.

  1. Touch if you can.

When you and a woman become more comfortable with each other after casual conversations, touch her if you can by offering to help her stretch her muscles. This is, if you are working out at the same fitness gym. If she enjoys the massage, then do it more often. Don’t go too fast with it though, and try to see if she is really interested, so that she won’t shove you off.

  1. Dressing casually.

Lots of women attest to the fact that more men try and flirt with them when they are dressed casually, than dressing for a night out. This is true, especially when it comes to meeting people in everyday places like the grocery store, at work, or any other public place. With that, it is a good idea to dress down at certain times, so that men won’t be intimidated and approach you.

  1. Do not be desperate in flirting.

When you are at a bar or at a coffee shop to give yourself a chance to flirt with someone, it is best not to be desperate about it. It is not a good idea to make eye contact to every guy that you see at the bar. Wait for the right moment, so that you would be able to enjoy flirting more.

  1. Do not be a moving target.

Always remember that a guy may need some time to observe you to become interested, as well as to
gain enough courage to initiate his approach. Thus, you have to stay in one place at a bar for a certain
amount of time, if you want the guy you are interested in to talk to you. Do not be a moving target, since
such targets are usually harder to catch or approach.

  1. Be happy.

When you go to a bar, you would most likely approach a person who is smiling, instead of the one who is looking sad or grumpy. This is because, people want to be happy, and happy people are simply more appealing than the ones who are unhappy. Thus, if you want to attract potential partners, then laugh all you want, and enjoy what you are doing, so that you can achieve success in it.

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Flirting is a skill that everybody should pick up, whether you are a girl or a guy, and it can greatly enhance your dates as well as how you get a date with someone you like. However, how do you flirt with the guy you like and what do you do if someone you do not like flirt with you? Knowing how to flirt and when to flirt is very important and it should not be overlooked. Now is the chance for you to learn all the vital flirting skills for FREE! This article will give you the necessary 100 flirting tips for girls and guys and very soon you can be off to try it out on your date. Don’t mess it up or lose the chance to get your ideal girl or guy, use the tips!

  1. Know the purpose of flirting.

Flirting is playful in nature, which is practiced by a person in order to express his or her interest in another individual, either romantically or sexually. There are ways to flirt subtlety and there are also ways of flirting that can be obvious at times. You can flirt with the use of your eyes, body language, touch, tone of your voice, or a combination of the mentioned behaviors.

  1. Prolonging eye contact.

Whether you are talking to someone or looking at someone at a distance, prolonging eye contact can send the message that you are interested in her. It should be noted though that maintaining eye contact should only be done to some extent. Do not overdo it, especially if you are looking at another person across the bar, since it can make her uncomfortable.

3. Smile

Smiling sends all the right messages, and people love to look at a person who has a pleasant and happy face. This is the reason why smiling is one of the most effective tools, when it comes to flirting. With that, if you are interested in a person, you should smile, so that you would appear approachable and ready for a conversation.

  1. Asking questions.

Asking questions and showing the other person that you are interested in his answers is one of the best ways to flirt. It would make him feel good that you are interested in his experiences, opinions, likes, as well as dislikes. Make sure that you listen to his answers though, so that it would become effective.

  1. Touch playfully.

Poking, playfully punching the guy, or playing with the girl’s jewelry is a way to get closer to the other person without overdoing it. These playful touches are subtle ways to flirt without being openly sexual. Choose the proper timing though, so that your actions would not come as inappropriate.

  1. Get closer to your guy and break away.

If you want to flirt with your guy and you want to send a cue that you are ready for a kiss, then you should try to get closer to him. Briefly look at his lips and break away from him, to tease him a little. By sending out this message, he would know that you are waiting for him to make the first move for a kiss.

  1. Choose songs for flirting.

While you are listening to the radio or through your music CD collections, try to identify songs that can make you more confident to flirt. By doing this, you would have the confidence to flirt with any person that you are interested in, once you hear one of the songs. Choose songs that you really like and are lively, so that you can also become more energetic.

  1. The right earrings for flirting.

There are different types of earrings that you can wear today. However, if you want to wear something that can enhance your capability of flirting with a guy, then you should wear dangling earrings. This is because; these types of earrings can make a guy notice your neck’s smooth curves. This is a subtle way to show some skin and it is pretty effective too.

  1. Watch more movies about love.

Movies that are about love usually start with a guy meeting a girl at the first time. During this stage, you can actually see lots of techniques in flirting, which are executed by the actors of the film. Take note of them, since these are well thought of by the directors and script writers.

  1. Keep a few candies or gums inside your purse.

Whenever you go out, most likely, you would bring a purse or a small bag with you. To make it easier to catch a guy’s attention and start a conversation with him, you can always ask him if he wants a candy or a gum. This is a very good icebreaker, and it is not too obvious that you like to get to know him better. [AdSense-A]

  1. The bump method.

If you are at a crowded party, and you want to spark up a conversation with a particular guy, then you can use the bump method for it. All you have to do is to run into the guy, and apologize to him by being too clumsy. Smile while you are talking to him, and introduce yourself.

  1. Compete with the other person.

Competing against each other can set off sexual signals between the two of you. You can challenge the other person to play darts, a game of pool, a card game, or even wager on something. By doing this, you won’t just have fun with one another, but it can also bring you closer to each other.

  1. Don’t become tensed.

Being tensed and crossing your arms is not a good way to start flirting with another person. With that, you need to maintain a smooth body language, so that your flirting would become more effective. While doing that, you can lead towards him and try to imitate his body language subtly.

  1. Flirting is fun.

Flirting is something that is fun, which is why it is not a good idea to take it too seriously. When you take it too seriously, your expectations may become too high, which can get you disappointed in the end. By doing it for fun, your flirting would bring out positive effects, since you would come across as a confident person who simply wants to have some enjoyment.

  1. Don’t forget to give compliments.

Compliments can get you anywhere as far as flirting effectively is concerned. Everyone loves to receive compliments, which is why it is one of the best ways to spark up a good conversation with another person. Just make sure that your compliments are not too personal and that they are genuine.

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  1. Not all flirting efforts work.

Always remember that there may be times when a person may respond negatively or reject your flirting. Whenever that happens, the best thing to do is to walk away, and look for another opportunity or another person to flirt with. Don’t try to persist, since a negative response does not mean that the other person is just playing hard to get.

  1. Only flirt with a person that you are interested in.

It is not a good idea to flirt with someone whom you are not interested in going on a date with. This is because, it can lead him or her on; and, it would not be a pleasant experience for the person when you turn them down. Thus, make sure that you are applying your flirting skills only to those you want to date.

  1. When someone flirts with you and you are not interested.

There may be times when a person that you are not interested in flirts with you. When this happens, there is no need to do something that can insult the person. All you have to do is to make up an excuse or simply walk away, in order to send out the message that you are not interested.

  1. Go on spontaneous dates.

Going on spontaneous dates with the person you really like is a good way to be with him. To do this, you can simply ask him if he wants to accompany you to the nearest ice cream shop, and do it in a way that he won’t be able to say no. By doing this, you can spend more time with him, and apply your flirting skills while you are enjoying your ice cream.

  1. Tease a guy you just met.

In meeting a guy for the first time, in most cases, he would try to tell you his first name first. When he does that, try to make him repeat himself by indicating that you were not able to catch it the first time. When you do this, he would repeat himself and lean towards you. Once he does that, give him a smile, to indicate that you are joking. This would be a good ice breaker, which could result to an interesting conversation later on.

  1. Practice your flirting skills.

There are lots of ways that you can practice your flirting skills. For one, you can do it while you are eating at a restaurant, and you see a beautiful girl at a distance. Whether you plan on getting to know the other person or not, practicing your skills can boost your confidence, which can help you in talking to the girl that you really like.

  1. What to do when you are interested in a guy across the bar.

When you spot a guy that you are interested in across the bar, one of the best ways to get his attention is to look at him. Let him catch you looking at him and smile before looking away, to send the right message across. By doing this, he can see it as a go signal to approach you. [AdSense-A]

  1. Build up your confidence.

You have to take note that in order for your flirting efforts to pay off, you have to have self-confidence. One of the best ways to build up your confidence is to wear clothes that really suits you well. Aside from that, you can also aim to become fitter. Boost your confidence, so that you won’t have second thoughts in flirting.

  1. Signs that the other person is flirting with you.

Aside from learning about different ways to flirt, it is also essential to know the signs that would tell you that the other person is flirting. Some of the signs to look out for would be touching her hair, increased eye contact, sitting or standing closer to you, touching you, laughing at your corny jokes, and such. By recognizing these signs, it would make you more effective on how to react to it, especially if you also like the other person.

  1. Make sure to flirt only in appropriate places.

There are places that are appropriate to flirt with another person in, and there are also those that are not. Some of the places that you can apply your flirting skills in would be in nightclubs, parties, and in informal events. On the other hand, you should refrain from flirting when you are at a funeral or inside the church.

  1. Show your interest.

Whenever the other person is talking about his or her experiences, you should show genuine interest in it. To do that, you have to indicate that you are listening attentively by asking follow up questions or by saying something related to his or her story. By doing that, your date would be encouraged to continue talking.

  1. Memorize some jokes.

Memorizing great jokes can actually go a long way, when it comes to impressing a person that you just met. Practice telling your jokes to your friends, in order to see if they are really funny. Keep in mind though that telling a joke that is so bad can also come out as good at times.

  1. How to send out a signal that you want to kiss the guy.

There may be times when your guy is not confident enough to kiss you, or he is just too focused talking to you that he may not be able to think about kissing you. To send out a signal about this, you can actually touch your teeth or your lips with your tongue, while looking at him. This is something that is simply irresistible to most guys, which is why it works most of the time.

  1. Know the difference between flirting and sexual harassment.

Flirting are playful methods of letting the other person know that you are interested in him or her. Making comments that are sexual in nature, or touching another person inappropriately, may make the other person lose interest in you. Aside from that, it can even be considered as sexual harassment, which can put you in big trouble.

  1. Don’t try to immediately achieve lots of things with flirting.

When it comes to flirting, you have to go slowly with it, so that you can also see if the other person is really interested in you or not. Learn about the signals of flirting, and watch the other person’s body language. If he or she shows signs that they are interested, then that is the time to take the next step, which is to ask them on a date.

  1. Wearing red clothing.

Studies show that most men are attractive to red clothing, especially when it is worn effectively. Thus, if you don’t have red clothes, then it is time to buy some of them and try it out on your next night out. By wearing red, it would make you look hotter to the other person, aside from the fact that you would also become more confident, knowing that it attracts most men.

  1. Spray some of your favorite perfume at the back of your neck.

Whenever you are on a date with a guy you really like, one of the things that you can do to flirt with him is to lean your back towards him. To make it more effective, sprinkle some of your perfume at the back of your neck. By doing this, he would be able to catch your scent and make him hug you.

  1. Let the guy know that you noticed his shirt.

Lots of guys like to wear shirts that are imprinted with their favorite bands, sports team, or even movie characters. Ask the guy some questions about it, so that he would know that you noticed his shirt. When you do that, it would boost his confidence more, since it shows that you are really interested in him.

  1. It is not bad to become obvious from time to time.

There are flirtatious actions that are obvious but are also effective. An example of it would be throwing a ball or a Frisbee towards a person you are interested in. Being obvious is not bad, especially if you can pull it off effectively. Smile when you are doing it, so that the other person would find you cute, and would positively respond.

  1. Don’t forget about social networking.

There are lots of social networking sites that you can find on the internet today. One example of it is Facebook; and, one way of using it to flirt with someone you know is to post a comment in one of his pictures, and ask him what it is all about. After responding to your question, tell him to elaborate his answer to you in person, to prompt him to hang out with you.

  1. Handwritten notes can still be effective.

Lots of people say hi or communicate through text messages these times. To make your approach more unique, you can actually slip a handwritten note to his or her pocket when you are at a party or a get together event. This is so much better than text messages, since not most people are doing it today.

  1. How to tell if a shy guy likes you.

Shy guys are hard to crack at times, but there are actually signs that can tell you if he is into you. For example, if he seems to be very good in talking to everyone else except you, then he is shy and he likes you a lot. Aside from that, it is also possible to see him smiling at you at a distant, but would not look at you when you are near him.

  1. Flirt with your guy before seeing him.

If you have a date with a guy that you are interested in, it is also a good idea to flirt with him, even before the date. One of the ways to do it is through text messages. For example, you can tell him what color you want him to wear, since it makes him look more attractive. When you do that, it already sets up the flirting mood before seeing him, which can make your date more interesting.

  1. Flirting only with your eyes.

If you want a guy to make the first move and approach you, you can actually flirt with your own eyes to prompt him to do it. If the guy is across the bar, walk by him, and look at him up and down while slightly smiling. By the time you reach your seat, he should already be following and ready to talk to you.

  1. Your nails can also help out.

When it comes to flirting, you can also let your nails help out with it. Make use of a very feminine color to paint your nails with. Make sure that it matches perfectly with your dress. By doing this, not only would he be able to notice how attractive you are, but it would also boost your confidence in flirting with him.

  1. Make him want more.

At the end of the date, before going inside your place, give him a kiss and tell him you had a great time. This would make him want more, which would prompt him to set another date with you. Do it in a subtle way, so that it would become more effective.

  1. Let him do something for you.

If your date is kind of a shy person, then you have to come up with ways to make him more comfortable, especially if you really like him. Ask him to do something for you, such as grabbing a table napkin or ordering something at a restaurant. If he really likes you, he would be glad to do it for you, and it would boost his confidence.

  1. How to flirt effectively.

Always remember that your flirting efforts would become more effective when you are more confident. Aside from that, you should also not be afraid of taking risks. Moreover, to make your flirting work, you should be positive in doing it as well as enthusiastic.

  1. Once you are already in a conversation.

There are some people who may already know how to flirt at a distance, but do not know what to do when they are already talking to the other person. To carry a conversation, there are actually lots of things that you can talk about. Talk about the surroundings, your experiences, and share your opinions. Don’t forget to ask questions as well, so that you would also know the other person better.

  1. Flirting is also having fun.

Flirting should be fun. Enjoy it and it would become more effective. Be spontaneous in doing it and do not forget to be playful and light hearted. By doing all these things, you would not just enjoy flirting more, but it would also get you closer to the other person without really even trying too hard.

  1. Props can also come in handy.

Whenever you leave your place and you are thinking about meeting someone new, then do not forget to bring a prop or two. Props can come in handy, especially when you are stuck in talking about something. Aside from that, it can also make the other person ask you questions or talk about certain things related to your props. Some examples of it would be an interesting book, magazine, personalized cap, and an unusual jewelry.

  1. Drive him crazy with a secret that does not exist.

Once you have become more comfortable in talking with each other, tell your guy if you can tell him a secret. When he affirms, tell him that you changed your mind about it. This move will drive him crazy in wondering about what you were going to say. It can lead to a more fun conversation and get you closer together.

  1. You can always make the first move.

Once you see signals that the other person is flirting with you, there is no need to wait for him or her to make the first move. You can always do it, if you want to. Just a simple hello would start up a great conversation. Make sure to prepare some questions though, so that you can carry the conversation properly.

  1. Listening is one of the keys to flirting effectively.

Listening effectively whenever the other person is talking can help you in making your flirting more effective. This is because, it can help you respond well to what he or she is talking about. Aside from that, it would also draw them to you, since every person loves to be heard.

  1. The proper way of maintaining eye contact.

Maintaining eye contact with the other person is essential to let him know that you are into him. However, you should do it gently. In other words, look at his eyes for not more than 3 to 4 seconds and glance away. Staring is actually not a good way to impress your date, especially if you have a blank stare.

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  1. Keep a training journal. Just before starting your training program for running, make sure to have training journal on your side for it. The journal can help you in monitoring your progress as the days and weeks pass by. Aside from that, it can also remind you on certain things that you need to do or achieve during the whole duration of the training.
  2. Breathing too hard. Once you are already breathing too hard while you are running, it is a sign that you should slow down. You can even just walk once you are having a hard time breathing, until you feel comfortable again. You need to do this, so that you won’t be putting too much pressure on your body in running.
  3. Finding a beginner training program. If you have just signed up for your first race, it is important to find a beginner training program for it. The program should provide you with the necessary information that you can follow, so that you can properly prepare yourself for the race. Aside from that, it can also offer lots of tips on how to prevent injuries while you are training.
  4. Visit a running store for your running shoes. A running store is described or named as such, due to the fact that they specialized in shoes and other things that pertain to running. Thus, it is best that you acquire your first pair of running shoes from them. Aside from that, in most cases, they have assistants that can provide you better assessment when it comes to choosing the kind of shoes that would suit you best.
  5. Practicing near at home. If you are in the process of selecting places to train yourself for the race, then it is best if you can pick a routine, which is close to your home. This way, you won’t have to spend some time to get to another place just to train. With its convenience, you can have more chances of being able to stick with it.
  6. Learn more each day. Even experts in running would say that they learn something new from it everyday. Thus, you should do so, not just by running more, but also in reading magazines or books about it. There are lots of books and magazines available today at bookstores, as well as in online stores.
  7. Don’t be ashamed of walking. If you are new to running or to getting some exercise for that matter, then you may have to start with walking, to properly condition your body for running. Keep in mind that lots of people are going through this route as well. Aside from that, some people even do not run, but simply walk in order to get in shape.
  8. Variety is the spice of life. Going through the same route each and every day of your training can become boring. Thus, it is a good idea to vary it. Visit other places, which you can reach through running or walking, so that you can make it more interesting and less boring. Aside from that, it can also make your body tougher for having to adjust to a new kind of terrain.
  9. Try to improve your speed from time to time. Training for speed can also help you improve your leg muscles. Thus, speeding up towards a certain light post and running at a normal speed to the next can already provide you with more benefits. Do this on a regular basis, so that you can also vary your training.
  10. Build your endurance. Running is one of the best ways to build your endurance. However, there are also other activities you can do, which can improve your stamina, aside from running. Some of which would be brisk walking towards the grocery store, using the stairs in climbing up to your office, and more. By doing all these things, you will be able to build your endurance more, and experience the effects when you run.
  11. Run harder in the later part of your runs. Running harder in the later part of your runs can actually provide you with a lot of beneficial effects. For one, it can improve your stamina. Aside from that, it can also improve your ability to sprint. Thus, do this technique from time to time, so that you can experience the desirable results from it soon.
  12. How to go through rough spots. When you have to go through rough terrain while you are running, you may find it a bit difficult, especially if its unfamiliar to you. To do it more effectively, you should focus more on your feet every time it touches the ground. Aside from that, you should also become more conscious on the sounds of your breath. By doing this, you won’t be able to notice the toughness of the route, and be able to go through it with ease.
  13. Getting rid of side cramps. One of the best ways to get rid of side cramps is to do abdominal breathing, when you are running. Aside from gaining relief from side cramps, it can also develop your lungs more, since it is the right way to breathe. Moreover, abdominal breathing also helps your body absorb more oxygen, which can improve your overall well being.
  14. Don’t be too hard on yourself. There may be times when you are not able to hit your goals on time. When this happens, you should not be too hard on yourself and give up on it. You should let it go, and focus on the next goal that you want to target. You should not get discouraged of your failures, since they can be the reasons that you would have more drive in hitting your goals.
  15. Don’t forget to get some rest. Resting is actually as important as the other elements in working out or in running. This is because when you are resting, you are actually providing your body a chance to repair its worn out tissues. Thus, it is best that you make it a part of your training plan, so that you can maximize your benefits from it. [AdSense-A]
  16. Buy a treadmill. If you don’t want to miss running, when the weather does not permit you to do so, then you should purchase a treadmill soon. There are certain types of treadmills that are available in affordable prices today, which can already serve its purpose. Check them out, so that you no longer have to spend a rainy day doing nothing inside your house.
  17. Be wary of the sun. When you are running on midday, you should take note that it may be the time when the sun shine’s at its brightest. In other words, you may get exposed to intense hit, which can get you easily dehydrated. Thus, aside from wearing sunscreen, you should also wear a hat. Additionally, don’t forget to properly hydrate yourself by drinking lots of water.
  18. Running during winter. Running on midday during winter time is actually a good idea, since it may not be too cold at that time of the day. However, you may still need to wear layers of winter dress. Aside from that, you should also wear a winter hat, and topping it with a headband, so that you will be able to cover your ears.
  19. Always check the weather. The night before you run, you should make it a point to check the weather for the following day. This can allow you to prepare for the next day’s weather, whether it is going to be hot or cold. If it is hot, one of the things you can do is to fill up your water jug halfway, and put it inside the freezer. The next day, pour some water into it, just before heading out.
  20. Run facing the vehicles. When you are running on a busy street, you should face the traffic, in order to practice safety. This is because, when you run facing traffic, you can easily see if a car goes out of its lane. Aside from that, it is also best if you are running with a partner, so that you can both watch each other’s back.
  21. Eating a well balanced diet. No matter how many miles you would run, you may not be able to achieve your goals if you are not following a healthy diet. A healthy diet should consist of foods that can provide you with the essential nutrients for your body. It should be complete with protein, carbohydrates, vitamins, and minerals.
  22. Run and lose weight to make it easier. If you want to make running easier, you should also aim to lose weight. Each time you lose weight, you would actually be making it easier for you to run, due to the fact that your body would become lighter. Thus, you should make sure that you are following a diet that is not filled with too much fats and calories, so that you can achieve that.
  23. Prevent dehydration. Dehydration is something that you need to prevent when you are running. It is true that drinking more water can effectively prevent it. However, if you are planning to run on longer distances, then you should drink more electrolytes as well. There are drinking products that are filled with electrolytes these days. Aside from that, you can also purchase electrolyte concentrates, which you can mix with your water, from pharmacies.
  24. Eating on long runs. If you are planning to do long runs, which can take hours in a day, then you should eat all throughout of it. Eating every hour while you are doing a long run is actually important. It can help you maintain the level of energy that you need to get through it safely. Thus, you should eat every hour or so, even if you don’t feel like it.
  25. What to do to hasten recovery. If you want to recover immediately after a long run, then you should get some rest, by sleeping at least 8 hours each night. Aside from that, you should also eat and drink within the hour after running. Follow these steps, so that you can shorten your recovery period effectively.
  26. Carrying water during long runs. There are lots of people today who do not want to carry their own bottles of water while they are running. If you are one of them, then at least carry some cash with you, and make sure that there are small corner stores within your route. With that, you can easily stop by them, purchase water, use the bathroom, and rest a bit.
  27. Lift weights. Lifting weights can also help you improve your running, especially if you get your legs involved as well. When you build more muscles, you would actually feel lighter, since you are making your body more capable of carrying itself. Thus, aim to build bigger and stronger muscles, so that you can also run faster.
  28. If there is no time for running. When you only have around 15 minutes of spare time to run, then you should still do it. Running for 15 minutes is actually better than not being able to run at all. To avoid time constraints though, you should setup a running schedule effectively, so that you no longer have to postpone many running sessions.
  29. What to do with your hands while running. Clenching your fist as if you were going to break an egg while you are running, is actually not a good idea, since it means that you are too tight. Instead of doing that, you should cup your hands while running, as if you are trying to hold an egg and preventing it from breaking. This way, you would be more relaxed in running, which can pave the way of deriving more benefits from it.
  30. Running during noontime. Running just before eating lunch actually offers lots of benefits. First of all, it can offer you midday sunlight. Aside from that, it can break your boredom from work. More importantly, it can also help in controlling your appetite during lunch time, which is good, especially if you are trying to lose weight.
  31. Always hydrate yourself. Whether it is hot or cold outside, you should continue to drink more water, especially when you are running. This is because, whenever you sweat, you are decreasing water content in your body. Aside from that, water can also help you in lubricating your joints, carrying blood to different parts of your body, and many more.
  32. Make running more fun. One of the many end products of running is fitness. However, you should make it a fun activity. Running is actually the process that can help you produce the product, which is fitness. Thus, you should see running as an activity that you love to do, otherwise, attaining fitness from it can become quite difficult.
  33. Don’t be afraid to try out new approaches in training. If you are in constant search for updated information about running, then you may come across new approaches about it. If a new method does not go by the book, you should not hesitate trying it out, especially if you feel that it can really help you. However, you should also be able to see if it becomes counterproductive.
  34. Know how to motivate yourself. There may be times when you feel tired about working out, and you don’t feel like getting out of bed to run. This is true, especially when you begin to think that training is becoming more of a chore, instead of something that provides you with pleasure in doing. When this happens, you should know how to motivate yourself, so that you would stay on track. One way of doing it is to remind yourself of your goals in running, so that you can bring back your drive for it.
  35. Eating eggs. In training, you should include eggs on your diet. Eating an egg or two for breakfast would provide your body with its needed protein, in order to repair the worn out tissues due to running. Aside from that, it is also filled with omega 3 fatty acids, which can do wonders for your body. In a nutshell, eggs will not just help in cutting recovery time short, but it can also boost your energy levels. [AdSense-A]
  36. Always think positive. If you are at the point of your running career where you are going through a tough time in hitting your goals, then you should convince yourself that you can do it through positive thinking. Positive thinking can actually provide you with the right mindset that can help you attain your goals. Aside from that, it can also boost your confidence, which can improve your chances of achieving your dreams.
  37. Avoiding injuries. At the first sign of injury, you should immediately back off. In other words, if you feel that there is something wrong with your ankle or legs, then you should take a few days off from running. Not running for 5 or 7 days is actually a lot better, than having to miss weeks or months of it, due to getting the injury worse by not recognizing its signs.running-573762_640
  38. Divide your goals and hit them one at a time. In running, you may have other goals aside from improving your performance in it. Examples would include improving your overall physical condition, getting better endurance, losing weight, and such. It is also possible that you want to increase your mileage on it. Whatever your goals are, divide them, and hit them one at a time to make it simpler.
  39. The right way to run. When you are running, you should take note that your heel touches the ground first, instead of the ball of your foot. If you do it the other way around, or if you let the side of your foot hit the ground first, it can make you fall and injure yourself. Thus, always follow the right way of doing it, and always run in a smooth manner.
  40. Check the way you run. Each person may have his or her own style of running. However, there is actually a proper style of running, which you need to follow, in order to prevent injury as well as to derive benefits from it. Thus, you should consult a coach for it, or a podiatrist. Have him look at the way you run, so that he can offer tips in improving your style.
  41. Get your arms moving. If you want to run faster and longer, you should also move your arms more. Lots of experts say that it is just how a human body is made; the more you sway your arms, your legs will definitely follow. Thus, mover your arms, and achieve a bigger range, so that your legs would have greater movements as well.
  42. Testing yourself. Just like when you are studying, testing can help you check your actual progress in running. Aside from helping you gauge your fitness, joining a race can also help you check your stamina. Thus, you should have an eye to look out for upcoming races at your place, and join one soon.
  43. Achieving better fitness with running can only be done with hard work. If you want to have better overall fitness by running, then you should work hard for it. Achieving fitness through running is actually possible; however, you need to spend time with it, and work your muscles out. Aside from working hard for it, you should also make sure that you eat the right types of foods at the right amounts.
  44. Consider other parts of your body. When you run, what you would be developing would be your legs and lungs. However, it does not mean that you won’t need to develop other parts of your body as well to get fit. Thus, you should also do other workout routines, such as jump squats, crunches, sit ups, pushups, and more, so that you can develop the other parts of your body.
  45. Going uphill. You need to stress your lungs and your muscles to a certain extent, so that you can develop them further. Thus, one of the best things that you can do for it is to run uphill, since it can provide you the kind of challenge, which can push you hard enough. Don’t overdo it though, since it can get your muscles strained.
  46. Always be careful in running. If you want to continue running for a long period of time, then you should do everything to prevent injury. You should warm up properly by doing light stretching, walking, or spending a few minutes on the treadmill. Aside from that, you should also be wary of the dangers you could encounter on the road.
  47. It is not a good idea to run on an empty stomach. When you run, your body would actually make use of your energy so much. Thus, it is best if you can have a light snack just before heading out from your place to run. Having a sandwich with milk, can provide you with the nourishment you need in order to go through minutes or an hour of running.
  48. Don’t limit your carbohydrate consumption too much. Eating healthy carbohydrates is one of the important things that you want to take note of, when you are running. As a rule of thumb, make your diet consist of 70 percent carbohydrates, 15 percent protein, and 15 percent of fat, so that you have sufficient amounts of energy in running. Just make sure your protein sources are not loaded with too much fat though, so that you won’t gain weight.
  49. Don’t forget the supplements. Taking a vitamin-mineral supplement is actually a good idea when you are running. It ensures that your body will be able to adequately convert the foods you intake into energy and protein, to support your increase rate in physical activities. Thus, search for a quality supplement today, so that you can use it soon.
  50. Visualize achieving your goals. One of the best things that you can do to boost your drive in achieving your goals is to use visualization techniques. When you visualize your success, it can greatly help you in achieving your desired results aside from controlling your nerves. Aside from that, it can also tap into your feelings, which is very important to keep you motivated in doing things to achieve your dreams

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  1. Find someone to run with. Find a partner who is as committed as you when it comes to running. With that, it can keep your motivation in running at a good level. Aside from that, when you have a friend who is expecting you to run with him on a regular basis, then you will find it harder to skip it.
  2. Avoid comparing yourself to others. When you begin running, there may be a tendency for you to compare yourself to others. This is not good, since it can take you away from your own goals. Thus, it is best to always remember that you are running for yourself. When you do that, you will be able to establish your own pacing, and prevent pushing yourself too hard.
  3. Determine your goals in running. Some people run in order to have better body condition, while others are doing it in order to become competitive in the sport that they are involved with. It is important that you determine your goals prior to starting your running activities. This way, you will be able to plan out your running better, and start the right way.
  4. Make up a plan for running. Making up a plan for running is good, since it can help you build your own routine in it. In your plan, it should include the running schedule that you want to follow. Aside from that, it should also involve purchasing the necessary gears that you need. Moreover, it is also important to come up with a well balanced diet.
  5. Tell your friends and family about running. Prior to starting running, it is best if you make your family and your friends aware of your plans. This way, they would be able to support you on what you want to achieve from it, as best as they could. Aside from that, some of your friends or members of your family may even become your running buddies.
  6. Watch runners in television. Watching running competitions in the television is one of the best ways that you can do in order to get inspired in running. Thus, you should take note of the many running competition schedules today. By watching them in the television, you would soon look forward to running, and even joining in one of the upcoming events.
  7. Think about your running goals before going to sleep. Just prior to closing your eyes at night, you should think about your goals in running, and how you are going to achieve them. When you sleep with that thought in your mind, by the time you wake up, you would be raring to go outside and start running. Do it every night, so that you will always look forward for the next day’s running.
  8. Running to lose weight. Running can actually help in losing weight. However, you should not get discouraged if your weight would not go down immediately. This is because it may take some time before you experience weight loss with it. Thus, it is best if you combine it with a healthy diet, as well as performing other forms of exercise.

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  1. Be prepared for tougher days. Always remember that while you are trying to make progress in your running, there may be times when it seems too hard to achieve even just your short term goals. When this happens, you should not get discouraged and you should motivate yourself more. Aside from that, be optimistic that the next day would be better.
  2. Running with music. If you want to have more energy while you are running, you should try listening to upbeat music while doing it. Music can actually boost your level of energy. Aside from that, if you are listening to music that you really like, then you may not even notice that you have already spent some time in running and have already covered quite a distance.
  3. Remove negative words from your vocabulary. It is very important that you always encourage positive thoughts when you are running. Thus, you should get rid of negative words from your vocabulary, such as “cannot, never, and won’t”. By doing that, you would become more confident that you are indeed capable of hitting your goals in time.
  4. Keep in mind that there are days when it could hurt. Always remember that when you are running, especially for the first few days, you will be putting your muscles to work at a higher pace. Therefore, you may experience muscle soreness in your thighs and legs. You should be glad in experiencing it though, since it means that your body is working in order to build more muscles, which can support you through the activity.
  5. Learn more about running. You should learn more about what you are getting yourself involved with. Learning more about running can be done through visiting websites that provide valuable information about it. Aside from that, you can also get in contact with professional runners, so that you can ask them some questions about it.
  6. When you run, it does not necessarily mean that you are going to lose weight very soon. Running is a form of exercise, which can boost your body’s metabolism. However, even if you are running on a regular basis, you can still gain weight, especially if you continue eating foods that have high sugar and calorie content. Thus, if you are running to lose weight, make sure that you combine it with a healthy diet as well.
  7. Make sure to have the right kind of shoes. When you are in the process of purchasing a pair of shoes for running, you should keep in mind that not all rubber shoes are made for runners. Thus, you need to make sure that you are buying a pair of running shoes for it. Aside from that, make sure that it fits you well, and that it can provide you with the support that you need for better balance, and to prevent injuries or strains.
  8. Purchasing socks for running. Although most people focus more on buying the right kind of shoes for running, it is actually very important to have the right kind of socks as well. When you use regular cotton socks for running, it can lead to blisters on your feet, which is bad news. Thus, make sure that you are buying running socks to pair with your shoes, so that you would be able to run comfortably.
  9. Ladies should not go for cheaper bras. When it comes to running, if you are a lady, you should provide adequate support to your chest. Thus, it is best that you purchase a bra that is designed for running, which is made with good and quality materials. Even if it may cost as much as your running shoes, a quality bra is still a very good investment.
  10. Running clothes. Running can become a more fun and exciting activity, especially if the clothes you are wearing are comfortable. Wearing the right running clothes does not only mean being comfortable with it. Your clothes should also make you look good, so that you will become more motivated in wearing them as well as in running.
  11. Buying running clothes online. If you are on search for running clothes that are available at reasonable prices, then don’t forget that online shopping can offer you that. Through internet shopping, you can access running clothes conveniently. Aside from that, most online stores offer their products at discounted prices, since they don’t have to deal with high operating expenses.
  12. When to buy cheaper running clothes locally. If you are searching for more affordable running clothes in your locality, you should try to wait for sales events. If you have time to wait though, it is always best to shop at the end of the season. This is because most stores would usually offer the previous season’s products at bargain prices. [AdSense-A]
  13. Knowing the right speed of running. When you are running in order to get fitter and build your stamina, you should be mindful of your speed, so that you can increase your distance without getting too fatigue. One way of determining this is to follow the “talk test” which is done by lots of avid runners. This basically means that if you can talk to your friend comfortably while you are running, then you are at the right speed.
  14. Listen to your stomach. Since running can boost your metabolism, it can also make your body process the foods you eat faster. Thus, there may be times when you get hungry earlier than usual. With that, you should listen to your stomach when it says that it is hungry. Because of that, you can address the needs of your body immediately, which is a good thing.
  15. Relaxing while you are running. While you are running, it is not a good time to be bunching up your shoulders towards your ears. When you run it is best to relax, so that you can maximize the benefits you can derive from it. Thus, let you jaw hang loose when you are doing it, as well as shake out your arms as well as your hands in order to relax.
  16. Think in minutes when running. One of the biggest mistakes that some runners have is to focus more on the number of miles they have covered. This is actually not the kind of mindset you want to have when you are running. Instead of thinking about the distance covered, you should become more focused on the time spent on it. If you are able to maintain running for a longer period of time, covering a longer distance with it would simply follow.
  17. Make running another way of meeting new friends. In order to meet new people when you are running, one of the things you can do for it is to sign up with a local running club. To find one, what you can do is to check with running fitness centers. Aside from that, you can also do a quick search through the internet, in order to find running clubs in your community.
  18. Sign up for a race. Signing up for a race can actually make you more excited in running. This is because you don’t want to be the last person to cross the finish line. Aside from that, finishing the race can also motivate you more. Thus, once you see an upcoming race being promoted, sign up with it as soon as you can.
  19. Make up a good running schedule. There are some people who may get hooked by running, in which they no longer give a chance to other important activities, such as spending time with their loved ones. Thus, make sure that you are able to properly balance your schedule for running and other important matters. This way, you still get to enjoy running, without certain people regretting that you got involved with it.
  20. Don’t carry loose change when you are running. One of the most annoying things that you can experience is to have loose change on your shorts when you are running. Thus, you should not carry them whenever you are running. Aside from the fact that it can annoy you, it can also distract others who are running along with you.
  21. Don’t overdo it. It is quite normal that you can find yourself talking more about running, even at work or at your own dining table. However, you should not overdo it, since some people may get tired of hearing the same topic from you all day. Try to talk about something else, especially with people who are not interested about running.
  22. Increasing you mileage. When it comes to running, one of your goals in it may include increasing your mileage in each running week. However, you should not go beyond 10 percent when you try to increase the distance that you can cover. Be conscious about this, so that you can prevent injuries, which can cause you to stop running.
  23. Whenever you are running, certain things may begin to rub. Running can actually result for things to begin to rub. This can actually lead to experiencing something painful such as blisters and even bleeding nipples. To prevent it, make use of clothing that would not cause too much friction. Aside from that, you can also use Vaseline by applying it on the affected areas.
  24. Run on soft trails on your regular running days. When it is your regular running days, it is a good idea to choose running on soft trails. This is because, it can prevent lower leg pain, as well as shin splints. Thus, it is best to go through soft trails whenever you are training, and only go through the asphalt whenever you are running on a race.
  25. Set a day or two apart for running hard. Running two hard days straight is actually not a good idea, since it can put too much pressure on your muscles. Aside from that, it would not provide your body with enough time to rest and recuperate. Therefore, it is important to set your hard running days a day or two apart, so that your body would be provided with time to recover and prevent overworking your muscles.
  26. What to do with body pains. Once you arrive back at your place, after a hard running day, you may begin to feel body aches or pains. To counter it, one of the best remedies is to apply hot and cold compress on the affected areas alternately. If that would not give you the relief you are looking for, you can always purchase a mild pain reliever for it, and pair it with a day or two of rest.
  27. Cutting down your training. Cutting down the rate of your training is a good idea, especially if you do it on the fourth or fifth week. This is because, that is usually the time when your body would require some time to recover. To make it simpler, just cut down as much as 30 percent of your entire running activities for the said weeks.
  28. Paying attention to your running form. At the start, you should run as lightly as possible, so that you would be able to pay attention to your running form. Becoming more conscious on your running form would actually help you prevent injuries. Aside from that, it can also ensure good balance, and properly targeting the muscle groups you want to develop.
  29. Trail running can he fun. When you do trail running, you would make it a more fun activity, since it can offer you with a lot of different things to see and hear. To make it more fun, you should have friends do it with you. However, make sure that you bring your bug or mosquito spray when you do so, so that you can prevent getting bitten by them.
  30. Cut your toenails short enough prior to running. Whenever you are running, you don’t want to have your toenails jamming your shoes, since it can become quite uncomfortable. Thus, you should cut it at desirable lengths, just a day or two before running. By doing this, you would become more at ease with your shoes, which is important to prevent accidents and injuries.
  31. What to do on long runs. There are lots of things that you need to do prior to doing long runs. One of which is to apply Vaseline between your toes, since it can prevent blisters. Aside from that, you should also bring enough amounts of water, and make sure that you have a good night’s rest.
  32. Avoid running on paths that are slanted. You need to be extra careful, when you are running on slanted paths. This is because, such types of paths can put too much pressure on your hips and knees. Thus, whenever you have a choice, avoid running on slanted paths, and prefer those that are flat.
  33. Stretching before running. Stretching is actually different from warming up. When it comes to running though, it is not a good practice to do some stretching prior to it. What you should do instead, is to properly warm up for it. This can be done by walking on a faster pace, or through jogging slowly for a number of minutes. [AdSense-A]
  34. Avoid the hot tub after a race. After the race, it is quite normal to feel very exhausted, especially if it covers a very long distance. If you have a hot tub though, you should know that it is not a good place to relax after racing. The reason for this is that, staying in a hot tub after a race can actually increase inflammation, and it can also stop healing.
  35. The race is not the day to try new things. Wearing brand new clothing, eating new types of foods, and trying out a new pair of shoes, are things that you can definitely do anytime, as long as it is not done during the race day. Trying out new food items on the day of the race can get you out of condition. Aside from that, if you are going to wear something new, it might be too late to realize that it is not comfortable.
  36. Drinking water on cups while running. When you are on a race, you may find yourself picking up drinking cups at the stations, to quench your thirst. One of the challenges when it comes to this is when you are trying to hold onto the cups and continue running. To make it easier though, you can gently squeeze it, so that it folds a bit, which makes it easier for you to drink from.
  37. When it rains. Raining on a race day is actually very possible. Thus, it is best to come prepared, by watching your weather station for it. If bad weather is likely to happen, then you should bring a plastic garbage with you. Such type of plastic bags are actually good to use as disposable raincoats.
  38. 46 Assumptions are not good. When you are running, it is not good to assume that everything is in place, or all the people that see you knows that you are running. Thus, if you see a car behind you, you should not assume that it can see you. What you should do is to run at a safer trail, so that you won’t get hit by it.
  39. Safety on the road. If you are running on a road, where lots of vehicles pass by, then it may not be a good idea to listen to music while doing it. The reason for that is, music can actually prevent you from hearing bikes or vehicles approaching from your back. Thus, always pay attention, and always run on the right side of the road to be safe.
  40. Starting slow. If it is your first time to do some exercises for quite some time, then running should be done on a slower pacing first. This is to make sure that you won’t put too much pressure on your body. Once you get accustomed to the activities that you are doing though, you can progress to something more challenging.
  41. Double knot your shoelaces. Double knotting your shoelaces just before you start running is a good safety measure. This is because, when shoelaces come undone while you are running, it can put you at risk to injuries. Thus, make sure that you are able to knot the shoelaces properly, in order to avoid accidents.
  42. Set realistic goals. When you set goals, it is very important that you set realistic ones. This is because, goals that can be too difficult to achieve, can get you discouraged, especially if you are not able to attain them. Thus, make sure that the goals you set can be attained by you, since that can also build your motivation in achieving the more challenging one.